who's tellin me not to get high ?

jennibearxo:

Its funny how fast time moves ….

Nine months ago, I met this boy. And it is kinda striking how much we’ve both changed through out the process of these nine months. I remember when him and I first met, he was a hardcore pot head and I was that really innocent awkward girl. And some how, we were attracted to each other. Some how, even though we were so different, we realized how much we had in common. 

It was never an easy ride. We had so many complications. We had so many arguments and disagreements. We had our days where we didn’t even want to speak to each other because of how messed up things got. We cried. We fought. We yelled. We said things out of anger.

But that is what love is right? No one said it’d be easy. No one said it would be perfect. But we always put aside our pride to make it up to each other, at the end of the day. We always were willing to work it out.

In this relationship, we’ve pulled the best out of each other. I remember one night, when I was on the phone with him, his Mom randomly took the phone and said to me, “I want to thank you Jenn. For being Lj’s girlfriend.” It made me smile and think of how far he’s gotten. He promised me from the start that he’s change. And I can already see it. Little to no smoking. Committed. Caring. Family orientated. Making choices for us not just him. And he’s made me more confident. More out going. I live life to the fullest without thinking of risks and looking back at regrets. 

I wouldn’t want to spend my life with anyone else.

In life, we all need someone who brings out the best in us to help us reach our full potential. And with Lj, he’s done that for me and I can proudly say I’ve done that for him.